break-up/divorce year?

Idk why do so many friends break-up/divorce so much these days? After not being compatible for a period of timing they realize they were not meant to be together, and end up with break-up/divorce. Love tends to become fragile! tsk tsk tsk

e.g 1,

A have been in a relationship for 5 years to a B, who she considered to be a real sweet and gentle guy. However, A was unhappy about their financial arrangement. A was the one who paid all the expenses and B seemed to be forever getting them further into debt. A was stressed and miserable and saw break up is her only way out of the financial strain she was under. 

Don't take your significant other for granted!! Your partner is not your gold-digger. Once you start taking her for granted, the relationship becomes dull. Don't always rely entirely on your significant other for financial support. Just DON'T!!

e.g 2,

A's boyfriend broke up with her for no reason at all. B came over and told A the relationship weren't working out and they weren't meant to be together. Everything seemed fine. They barely ever fought. When A asked him if everything was okay, B insisted that everything was fine and told A she's too good for him and ... starts ignoring her.

Oh lame lame lame!!! What a lame excuse! It's just a lame way for him to try to dump you nicely. This makes absolutely no sense huh. This kind of guy is immature and too selfish. He is just giving this excuse because he knows it sounds nice and not harm, and he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Remember someone isn’t going to dump you if what they really want is to be with you. 

e.g 3,

A bored with her marriage and she wants her life to be different. She had dreams, visions and plans for the future before marriage but now she feels those dreams diminishing.  If money wasn't an object, A would consider divorce.

I think you are too young to consider marriage. You want the divorce, but you're not sure if it is the right decision? Since going thru a divorce will impacts your life. Oh woman! Seriously what did you see in each other when you met? Find that spark and get it back! Successful marriages go thru peaks and troughs.

Many people expect their significant other to know instinctively that they are not happy with them. But problem is their significant other have no idea what they did wrong. My advice is if you are not happy with the way your significant other is treating you, you need to tell her/him clearly. Don’t expect her/him know what's bothering you. Being in a relationship is hard work, sometimes harder than the regular job. Communication is key no matter what the issue and you both got to learn to compromise. Remember, relationship takes time, effort, and maturity.