"Love and Marriage"

A few days ago my best and oldest friends got married. It was a day filled with joy and love ♥ Here are the few things you’ll learn when your best friend gets married, especially if you’re one of the bridesmaids like me. =P

You’ll be almost as worked up about everything going well as the bride herself. You’ll worrying about everything, to excitement, to happiness, and there’ll even be some tears too. It’s all so overwhelming and emotional feelings you’ll go thru on the day is huge. The time before the actual wedding ceremony, you’ll be rushing around making sure every lil thing is going according to plan. After the actual ceremony part is over and you’ll feel a sudden sense of exhaustion. But most of all you’ll feel this incredible sense of joy, pride and love for your friend as she embarks on this new chapter of her life. It’s not everyday that you watch a friend you’ve known since you were 5 years old get married and start a new life. Yes, the emotion may get to you, but you’ll want to relive each moment with her as you’re just so proud! Plus, playing such an important part in your best friend’s wedding will create special memories for the both of you. ♥

Shui Khen & Edwina

The day we’ve been dreaming about is finally here. Today is the first day of your new life with him. I am honored to serve as your bridesmaid today. I wish you both a lifetime of happiness and love. I hope he fulfills all his vows and I hope he promises more as time goes by and I want you to know that no matter what, I’ll always be there for you. I wish you a lifetime of laughs, an eternity of love, and an abundance of joy and happiness. May the glow of love and happiness from your marriage day be with you for the rest of your lives. Amen.

Love,

Minzi 

朋友圈

什么决定了你的阶层？是出身？家庭背景？从事的工作？收入？还是你的社交圈子？

‘‘ 物以类聚，人以群分’’ 一个人的朋友圈子往往决定了一个人的品质。在现实生活中，你和谁在一起的确很重要。和优秀的人在一起，你会出类拔萃。有句话说得好，你是谁并不重要，重要的是你和谁在一起。古有“ 孟母三迁 ”，足以说明和谁在一起的确很重要。雄鹰在鸡窝里长大，就会失落 去飞翔的本领，如果你想像雄鹰一样翱翔天空，那你就要和群鹰一起飞翔，而不是与燕雀为伍。一个人想要改变自己的境况，提升自己的阶层，必须好好选择自己的朋友圈子，不要把时间浪费在不能给你提升能力以任何帮助的人身上。

Can you stay friends with your EX?

I won't block you or delete you. I'm keeping you there so you're able to see how happy I am

Unfortunately...EX don’t disappear from the earth after a breakup. I’m not saying I want my exes to suffer a major tragedy, but I definitely want them to be far less happy and successful than I am lol. I don't unds those couples who stay friends after a breakup. Why do you want to remain friends? I used to think this was possible because I had fun with them and don't want to feel like the time we spent was wasted. In my mind, these are all good reasons and previously, I've tried to do so. but now I'm not sure. What's changed my mind? Firstly... There’s a difference between being friends and being friendly.  

Being friends involve frequent communication and hang out frequently but being friendly means that if we pass on the street, I’ll just smile and probably say hi? A relationship ends has an effect on what happens afterward. If it ended badly like cheating, abusive etc then attempting to form a subsequent friendship can be difficult. for an example, if you felt neglected by your partner during the relationship and your bond with him was weakening you won't suddenly become friends with him afterwards. right? However, if your relationship ends peacefully, then a post-breakup friendship seems more feasible. But if you are comfortable in being friends, there's no issue. If you think that even knowing about his/her life is going to hurt you, then you should not even be in touch! As long as you both are perfectly ok and comfortable with seeing each other, accepting each other as ''just friend'' and don't get jealous if your 'ex' is flirting with someone else. =)

Amy & Ken's wedding dinner

recently attended a friend's wedding at Grand Port View

Weddings dinners are wonderful celebrations. I love attending wedding dinners. =D As a guest I'm honoured to be invited to be part of witnessing the fairy tale night where the couple look so loving. I started thinking about all of the weddings I’ve attended and made a list. In the past 10 years, I’ve been to 10 weddings! I have been to a couple of weddings for distant relatives that I am not close to. I don't enjoy those because I am not close to the people getting married XD. Well, my fav things about weddings are the decos and the food. The worst part of a wedding would be the awkwardness of what do I wear and seeing people you barley remember lol.

the only picture I snapped. My friend with her husband and they got married after 10 years together

It's not easy to make long-term relationships work and I'm glad they made it. Today is going to be a day that they shall never forget. Enjoy the bliss of becoming one ya dear. May marriage brings the great joy, love and passion in your both life. ❣

I can't keep calm

Everyone around me is getting married or pregnant and I’m just like … I just wanna go to the gym & travel!!! Let’s be clear, marriage is a covenant. I do want to be married BUT not right now. Marriage is not the goal for me. My goal is to get abs lol. One of my really good friends is getting married on June and I was excited when I initially got the news. Dear my beautiful, soon to be married best friend ( you know who you are ) It finally happened. You're getting married!! We have been talking about this day since secondary school XD Joy and happiness is waiting for you both. May your relation fulfill all of your hearty desires and you feel happiness together always ❣ As you go on with all the wedding planning, please remember to have fun with it and most importantly appreciate and enjoy all these special moments. xoxo

Dude that's messed up!

You're supposed to have a commitment with that person! Cheating in a relationship is wrong because if you are truly in love with someone then you shouldn't need to have multiple partners to satisfy you in the first place. If you can't commit, then why bother cheating? STAY SINGLE. #Ispeakthetruth

Best Friends For Life

Best friends are people you know you dont need to talk to every single day. You don't even have to talk to each other for weeks, but when you do, it's like you never even stopped talking at all.

I love those random memories that make me smile no matter what is going on in my life now. “Best Friends for Life” is rarely happens in real life. If you have a friendship that has lasted for more than 10 years then that’s something you should be proud of =)