Monthsary ♥ din din

It is our 23rd monthsary ♥ We went to Pang's cafe located in Gaya street last night for our monthsary celebration.

There is nothing fancy about this restaurant but the atmosphere was nice and relaxed. One of the few restaurants where I can say that the staff is most pleasant and courteous =)

Usually I wouldn't bother to write a review for a place we have only visited once and had only one plate of food but this cafe deserved a plaudit! The spaghetti carbonara is da best we've ever had, creamy but not greasy. It's fattening but who cares when it tastes good? =P

Loved the lamb, can't get the craving out of my mouth *drooling* And the fries!!!! The best I've ever eaten !!!! This was definitely a satisfying meal. We ♥ it not just because the food was good and reasonably priced, but also because of the ambiance, which is family-friendly and welcoming ♥

Pang's Cafe

Address: 121-137, Jalan Gaya, Pusat Bandar Kota Kinabalu, 88000 Kota Kinabalu, Sabah, Malaysia

Tel: 017 - 861 2788

Operating hours: 10:30am - 10:00pm

Our Anniversary ♥

They say that time flies when you're having fun and that's right! Today marks the 1 year anniversary of us. A year that was filled with such wonderful memories ♥ Boyfie picked me up and surprised me with a bouquet of flowers. I was like OMG! Boyfie knew I love anything purple so he requested the florist for a purple themed bonquet. Awww~ so sweet ♥

We went to Tatu cafe at Shangri-La for buffet dinner. ( I like buffet because can eat variety of foods. At a buffet I can actually get small portions of many different types of foods =D ). The staffs are welcoming and so helpful. The foods were replenished vv quick and the seafood served were really fresh.

This is my custom ordered cupcakes for boyfie. Have you ever experienced a coincidence so incredible that it left you stunned? >.< We both were amazed because the colors and design of the bouquet and flowers so similar! I was wondering if telepathy exist because there are times where I am thinking about something and my boyfriend is thinking about the same thing too!

To le boyfie, I really don't know how to tell you how much you mean to me and how much I love you. But please know that I never want you to leave me. The love I feel for you grows bigger every day. Every day I have spent with you has been wonderful because you have shown me how much you love me. Thanks for being the happiness of my life. Happy anniversary dear!

Happy Birthday WeeWee!!

Today was a reallyyy exhausting day for me. But it was definitely worth it. I lied to boyfie that I knocked off from hectic work and I was going home but in fact I drove from Putatan to Kepayan 333 Plaza to collect the helium balloon, then drove all the way down to Inanam Laut to get the cake and brought the cake and balloon to Vino - Vino at KK Times Square. I picked this bistro because the ambience is great and I thought that boyfie would like it too =) I hurried to set the table with everything because I'm almost unfailingly on time. I went to his house around 7:45pm, he asked me 去哪里吃? ( go where to eat? ) and I answered him 我想想下啊~ ( let me think about it ). I made him think that I didn't make any preparation for his birthday ( I'm good at pretending =P ). I saw his disappointment, his facial expression says it all =D I teased him 我们随便吃啦, 可是吃之前我们去下Riverson那里抓Pokemon诶!听说那里有Drogonite哦! ( We ''cincai'' eat la! but let's go catch some Pokemon at Riverson before dinner! I heard that Dragonite appeared in there ). He really thought I did not plan anything for his birthday =D I parked my car at the Riverson and we walked down from the car, I pulled him in a little closer and walked to the bistro, 这里是吃什么的? I asked him curiously. I opened the door before he talked, walked in quickly towards the smoke-free dining area, he is following me too. I stopped walking and ask him to look for ''his table'' He was ''har?'' He blushed when he saw the decorations.

Throughout the entire surprise boyfie was happily smiling =D I secretly planned this entire surprise for about one month, what to buy, what to decorate, which place will be good for dining and etc.

Custom ordered rich chocolate cake for boyfie. This delicious cake is topped with assorted chocolate. The cake was slightly sweet but had a vv great texture. Last but not least, I feel blessed on a daily basis to be with you, especially on this day. And I thank the Lord for bringing you into my life. I hope you had a good day! Love you more than words can say. Happy Birthday love! ♥

Relationship Solutions

14 Signs You’re Bored With Your Relationship by Koty Neelis

1. You can’t remember the last time you two did something adventurous together. When was the last time you took a weekend away or tried something new together?

2. When you go out either alone or with friends you see better dating potentials everywhere.

3. You’re constantly reminiscing on better times or bringing up the past from when you two were first falling in love. Everything from before seems better than it is now and you wish you could get back to that time.

4. You’ve both let your daily schedules get the best of you. You come home at the same time, go to the same brunch spot every weekend, and keep the same schedule day in and day out. You’ve forgotten how to be spontaneous.

5. You have a gut feeling deep inside this person probably isn’t someone you’ll be with long term or you have a feeling you’re not in the right relationship. If you have to ask yourself if the relationship is right, chances are you already know the answer.

6. You miss being single and envy your single friends. It always seems like they’re having so much more fun without you.

7. The sex isn’t as great as it used to be. Either you or your partner don’t seem to find any interest in spicing it up at the moment and you’re not sure if you even really care anymore to try and put in more effort.

8. You don’t feel bad about canceling dates and sort of feel relieved when they get too busy to spend time with you.

9. You avoid talking about the future. Whereas you once loved dreaming with them about the kind of city you might move to together or just talking about trips you’d like to go on in the next few months, you’re not really interested in making those kinds of tentative plans anymore.

10. You get into arguments for stupid reasons and find yourself becoming annoyed or irritated at minor things they say or do. You think maybe you’re just having a bad week or a bad day but no, pretty much everything about them can be found annoying now.

11. You don’t care about impressing them anymore. It’s not that you’ve given up, it’s just that putting in the extra effort to look more attractive around them just seems like a waste of time.

12. Your friends ask you about them and you don’t really have anything to say. You’re no longer enthused to talk about them or the things you’ve been doing together.

13. Things you once loved about them have now become huge liabilities. When you started dating their quirky traits were adorable but now you find them to be major personality flaws. You’ve even thought back to the first few months of dating and wondered how you didn’t catch those red flags.

14. You’ve started thinking more about what you might like to do if you weren’t attached. You think about finally taking that trip across Europe you wanted to do or a project you’d like to work on if you had more time. You start considering how many more things you could do if you didn’t have to worry about a relationship.

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The relationship is sooo much fun for the first few months but begins to downhill. This is because the first few months you are getting to know each other. Both of you cannot stop thinking of each other. But once you know everything about each other it's...really gets boring. Well, you don’t need to feel guilty if you’re getting bored with your relationship. Ask yourself a questions, why you’re getting bored with your relationship and fine solution to your question

I know some of the reason why some couples don't last is because they don't do anything to keep the relationship going. You need to talk to your partner. Talk to them about random things, spice things up...etc. Sometimes just talking/doing random things can bring people closer together. Relationships can get monotonous, which is why you need to make the effort to change things up a bit. I found a website recently and I think it's kinda good. You can check it out yourself.. They give ideas and inspirations on relationships. 17 Things To Do When You Get Bored In Your Relationship

#A relationship is like a house. When a lightbulb burns out you do not go and buy a new house, you fix the light bulb.

遇见幸福300天♥

Time passes so quickly and it's our 300days together already. So many things happened throughout these days, both happy and unhappy moments. But guess what? We still managed to pull thru this together. We quarreled, we teared, we learnt and we treasured. We made it thru all these despite having numerous quarrels and problems. "All guys are the same," is what I told you on our first met. Today, I take that back, because you are so special and best of all, you are mine! I'm really vvvvvv blessed to have such an awesome person as my boyfie, my buddy and my soulmate. xoxo #LeslieWee

RELATIONSHIP takes effort

Saw this on Facebook ↓

Every relationship gets boring and it will get boring after you've been together for years. It's always fun in the beginning. It's always exciting when you're getting to know each other. It's always thrilling to chase one another. Eventually, it gets hard. Eventually, it becomes difficult. Eventually, it drains you. That's when people tend to quit and go look for someone else because "the spark is gone" and they want to feel wanted and admired and loved again. But listen, that's not how it's supposed to be. No, that's not how it works. It doesn't have to be that way. Even when it does get boring, that's when you're supposed to remember why you're with that person in the first place and it's never too late to find that happiness that you both once found together because the truth is, it's always been there and it never left. Even when it feels like feelings are fading, that's when you're supposed to know how much this person means to you and what losing them would be like because being able to love someone even when they're being hard to love shows that your feelings never left. Even when it feels like you're done, that's when you're supposed to realize that no matter who you're with, it's always going to get "boring" so you might as well be with someone who's willing to love you unconditionally and never give up on you. - Teddy Nguyen

Indeed, relationship is all about ↑ ups and ↓ downs and it's a matter of choice. Whenever I feel like "the spark is gone", I will do everything to keep the ''fire burning''. Undeniable I will get bored sometimes but there are other things to consider before the love fades. Everyone will eventually get bored at the end if they stop making the effort. It's ALL ABOUT EFFORT! think about it! Not putting enough effort can kill a relationship. E.g : calling you to see how you're doing, trying to work thru problems and communicate clearly instead of just giving up/running away, bringing you food after a long day at work, planning dates and outings, occasionally doing things without being specifically asked...etc. Remember, effort is a HUGE part in making a relationship work. 

numbers with special meaning ♥

If you have Chinese friends in your Facebook then you will see today a bit different in their Facebook status. On this day, most of the couples will go out and enjoy their lovely day. There are quite a number of posts on my insta/facebook. Some people choose today to make confession, some send flowers/gifts to lovers, some hang out for a date and some even sign in for marriage. 13:14pm on 20th May only occur once a year.

我5(I) 爱2(Love) 你0(You)

Mandarin pronounce as:

WO(5) AI(2) NI(0)

♥

♥

♥

20th May - 13:14pm.

5/20 - 13:14

5201314

To those who doesn't know chinese.

5201314 actually means wo ai ni yi sheng yi shi ( The pronunciations are almost similar )

In English:  I love you forever and ever ♥

我爱你一生一世 ♥

Dating monthsary celebration - Buffet dinner @ Le Meridien Hotel

Throwback to Monday night, a great night indeed! We celebrated our monthsary on 02.05 and coincidentally it falls on the holiday. We decided to have our monthsary buffet dinner at Le Meridien. So this post is gonna be a combination about our monthsary dinner and recommendation I would like to make for the food ♥ If you expecting some Malay, Indian, Chinese, Japanese and Western cuisine then you can get it all here. I like the atmosphere, so peaceful and quiet. The restaurant interior was grand and classy too. The bar serves variety type of lettuces where you can make your own salad with freshly chopped condiments. They also have salad that's well prepared. On the other side of the salad bar have raw salmon, slices of beef...etc. The crab, mussels, prawns are presented on a bed of cracked ice. They serves local food like nasi briyani and something else which I couldn't recall. 

        

The plate of food which I will always go for whenever I go for international buffets. Took some cooked cod meat, baked potatoes and prawns. They were all very freshly cooked.

Gourmet mussels served with wedge lemon and the freshly baked bread with Canola spread

I always gravitate toward the cheese. The cheese station serves various sorts of cheese like Emmental cheese ( medium-hard Swiss cheese ), Edam cheese ( semi-hard cheese that originated in the Netherlands ), Cheddar cheese...etc. The most anticipated part for me would be desserts! No buffet is complete without the desserts =D But unfortunately over here the choices are limited. They have selection of coconut puddings, red velvet cakes, choco tart, caramel crimble tart...etc. Had a hard time deciding what to get as I was quite full by then. The taste just fine. 

And we end off with a tempting ice cream. I picked chocolate, yam and strawberry with raspberry syrup and choco rice as topping.

The food quality was not too bad actually. However the food choices were quite limited. I felt that it was a bit expensive in terms of food wise but if you love to seek new experience, this place could be the great choice for you! thumbs up for their service as they were really courteous, attentive and cleared our plate quickly.

LE MÉRIDIEN KOTA KINABALU

Address :

Jalan Tun Fuad Stephens, Sinsuran, 

Kota Kinabalu, 88000, Malaysia

Tel : 088 - 322 238

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Lunch 12:00pm to 2:30pm

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Applicable up to 6 persons

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Lunch 12:00pm to 2:30pm

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Happy 8th monthsary ♥

Time has passed so fast and in just a blink of an eye, today marks our 8th month together ♥ It is not very long since I have known you but I have given you the best position in my heart and my life. Spending everyday with you is just so awesome. I'll never get sick of seeing you everyday.

I know that there would be times wherein I would fall short of your expectations, but I promise to do my best. I promise to shower you so much love that you would be drowning in it (well in a good way).

I love you

♥♥♥

Can you stay friends with your EX?

I won't block you or delete you. I'm keeping you there so you're able to see how happy I am

Unfortunately...EX don’t disappear from the earth after a breakup. I’m not saying I want my exes to suffer a major tragedy, but I definitely want them to be far less happy and successful than I am lol. I don't unds those couples who stay friends after a breakup. Why do you want to remain friends? I used to think this was possible because I had fun with them and don't want to feel like the time we spent was wasted. In my mind, these are all good reasons and previously, I've tried to do so. but now I'm not sure. What's changed my mind? Firstly... There’s a difference between being friends and being friendly.  

Being friends involve frequent communication and hang out frequently but being friendly means that if we pass on the street, I’ll just smile and probably say hi? A relationship ends has an effect on what happens afterward. If it ended badly like cheating, abusive etc then attempting to form a subsequent friendship can be difficult. for an example, if you felt neglected by your partner during the relationship and your bond with him was weakening you won't suddenly become friends with him afterwards. right? However, if your relationship ends peacefully, then a post-breakup friendship seems more feasible. But if you are comfortable in being friends, there's no issue. If you think that even knowing about his/her life is going to hurt you, then you should not even be in touch! As long as you both are perfectly ok and comfortable with seeing each other, accepting each other as ''just friend'' and don't get jealous if your 'ex' is flirting with someone else. =)

How to be a good girlfriend?

Being a good girlfriend can be tricky, especially at the beginning of a relationship. You have to be loving and supportive while maintaining your independence. If you want to know how to do it, just read on from step one below ↓

#sharedfromWikiHow

• Take it slow. Don't push him to call you his girlfriend after a couple of dates. Don't start talking about marriage and children before you've even met his friends. The beginning is a precious time when you both feel like you're walking on air just because you're together. Eventually this phase will pass and you'll hit bumps in the road that will test your relationship and during those times you'll both look back to the memories from the beginning to remember why you're in it. So don't bring up any issues prematurely and make the beginning of your relationship stressful. Let it take its natural course. Cherish your time together, it's the only time this person will be new to you. That doesn't mean you should be an obsessive girlfriend and crave every second of his time. Relax. Be patient. Enjoy.

• Be honest. While being honest to your guy is very important, to the point of being paramount, it is equally important that you are honest with yourself. If you overreact or make a mistake, you can acknowledge your error and apologize. If you're feeling vulnerable or upset, you can sort through your feelings and verbalize them to him in a non-accusing way. And the most important thing here is that you will open your feelings as much as possible. For example, if someone crushes you, tell him immediately for you two not to have problems as much as possible. 

• Have a positive attitude. If everything you say around him is a criticism or an attack, he will not look forward to seeing you. However, you don't always have to agree with him just because he is your boyfriend. Tactfulness is a better strategy in mature relationships. No matter what, have a good sense of humor. Have inside jokes together. Be spontaneous. Be happy.

• Make your desires, needs, and opinions known, even when they may conflict with his. You don't and shouldn't exist solely to please him. Besides, showing that you are your own person with your own needs, desires, and approach to life will keep him interested in getting to know and understand you as a person. Just remember to express yourself in way that doesn't attack anyone else's opinion or lifestyle in any way--you can be humble and outspoken at the same time. 

• Let him live his life. If you feel entitled to all of his time and attention, learn how to not be an obsessive girlfriend. Don't be an "over protective girlfriend" let him go out without him feeling watched. Remember that he doesn't need you for everything and that you are separate people as well as a couple. When he needs some space, don't take it personally. But do make sure he knows that you are always there for him.

• Give him gifts. When you're in a relationship it's fun to give each other small gifts. Boys love to get presents and giving him one shows that he means a lot to you. Don't overdo it though. You don't want him to think you're crazy.

• Be yourself Don't lie to impress him, don't try to make him jealous, don't lead him on if you're not into everything. These things are wrong, and if you feel the need to do that then you don't know the meaning of a true relationship. Be honest and open with him. If the two of you are mature then you will handle it correctly.

dinner with le boyfie

Spending time with boyfie just makes me happy :) Last night boyfie suggested to have dinner at Welcome Seafood Restaurant ( 大茄来海鲜餐厅 ). Welcome Seafood Restaurant is a great place to satisfy your seafood cravings. This place is cheaper than those restaurants near KK town. We ordered a few dishes. We ordered Mongolian style chicken ( 蒙古鸡 ), wet buttered prawns ( 湿奶油虾 ), stir-fried malabar spinach with garlic ( 蒜香炒帝王苗 ) and deep-fried squids ( 酥炸鱿鱼 ). Everything tasted great and were to our liking.

Wet buttered prawns ( 湿奶油虾 ). Another dish that uses curry leaves to bring out the extra aroma ( RM 21 )

Stir-fried malabar spinach with garlic ( 蒜香炒帝王苗 ) vv sticky but the leaves not so vv sticy compared to stem ( RM 15 )

Deep-fried squid ( 酥炸鱿鱼 ) in light batter with sweet chili sauce ( RM 18 )

Mongolian style chicken ( 蒙古鸡 ) I vv like the sweet buttery taste of the sauce ( RM 15 )

Welcome Sea Food Restaurant ( 大茄来海鲜餐厅 ) is currently the famous seafood restaurant in KK. It's not only tasty, but they serve the food very fast and efficient. If you are coming to KK but not trying their seafood here, your whole trip is meaningless LOL

Tables are always occupied so booking recommended. =)

Welcome Seafood Restaurant

☞ Asia City Branch:

Lot G 18, Ground Floor, Kompleks Asia City, Phase 2A,

Jalan Asia City, 88300 Kota Kinabalu, Sabah

Tel: 088 - 447 866

Business hours: Daily 12.00pm - 12.00am

☞ Penampang Branch:

Lot 15, Beverly Hills Industrial & Commercial Park,

Jalan Bundusan, 88300 Penampang, Sabah

Tel: 088 - 728 669

Business hours: Daily 2:30pm - 12.00am

food of love

The buffet station at Ming Garden Hotel. Friendly staffs, great atmosphere.
The food was delicious but not much choice.

Went for buffet dinner at Golden Dew Bistro @ Ming Garden with boyfie yesterday. Everyday is special on it's own but today is especially special as we celebrate our ''daysary'' ( something like anniversary but it is not counted by years but using days ). I forgot to take the picture of main course because I was super hungry, so here is the leftover serving.

Smashing and creamy pumpkin soup!!! Yummylicious!!! I was pleasantly surprised at how tasty this soup was.

Whole-grain bread with butter, soft and slightly sweet.

Paddle pop! Paddle pop! ♩ ♪ ♫ ♬ Shaved ice and ice cream. 

took a picture of him while he was eating. 

Our Starbucks tumbler ♥

Golden Dew Bistro @ Ming Garden

Location : Level 1

Opening Hours : 6.30am to 10.30pm

Phone : 088 – 528 888 (ext 6611)

MARCH PROMOTIONS ( 1 - 31 March 2016 )

♒ International Buffet Dinner ♒

RM 89.00 Nett (Adult)

RM 44.50 Nett (Child) *Age 5 to 12

* Children under the age of 4 dine for free

Amy & Ken's wedding dinner

recently attended a friend's wedding at Grand Port View

Weddings dinners are wonderful celebrations. I love attending wedding dinners. =D As a guest I'm honoured to be invited to be part of witnessing the fairy tale night where the couple look so loving. I started thinking about all of the weddings I’ve attended and made a list. In the past 10 years, I’ve been to 10 weddings! I have been to a couple of weddings for distant relatives that I am not close to. I don't enjoy those because I am not close to the people getting married XD. Well, my fav things about weddings are the decos and the food. The worst part of a wedding would be the awkwardness of what do I wear and seeing people you barley remember lol.

the only picture I snapped. My friend with her husband and they got married after 10 years together

It's not easy to make long-term relationships work and I'm glad they made it. Today is going to be a day that they shall never forget. Enjoy the bliss of becoming one ya dear. May marriage brings the great joy, love and passion in your both life. ❣

对的人错的人

两个人能否走在一起，时机真的很重要。当你出现在他想要安定的时候，那么你的胜 就很大。当你出现在他对这个世界充满了好奇的时候，那么就算你多美多优秀都是徒劳无用。你把青涩的岁月都给了他，最后却把生活给了另外一个人，这就是人生的出场顺序。一个惊艳了时光，一个温柔了岁月。回首往事的时候，我们常常会把彼此的错过归咎于缘分。其实真正影响我们的往往就是那一时三刻相遇与相爱的时机，如果你出现得早一点，也许他就不会和另一个人十指相扣，又或者相遇得再晚一些，晚到两个人在各自的爱情经历中慢慢学会包容和体谅，善待和妥协，也许走到一起的时候，就不会那么轻易地放弃。

现在的他我不敢说我有多爱，但我知道他出现的时机是对的。不是所有的男生都把你宠得像孩子一样，其实我依赖性也不强，若他不在我也能将自己的生活过的井井有条。每个人的青春一定都经历过偶像剧的洗礼。憧憬著自己会像剧中女主角般，有个王子公主的结局。偶像剧中，撞一下可以撞出爱情，然而在现实生活中，撞一下只能撞出个“XXX”。现在的偶像剧里的男主角都特别包容，宠溺，完美无瑕，女主角特别无理取闹，矫情作做，这无形中也影响了很多时下年轻人的爱情观，总觉得你不陪我，不宠我，就是不爱我。曾经我也很任性，若对方不能及时回我信息我都会生气夺命连环call，结果换来的是‘‘你好烦’’这三个字。而我会因为这更加无理取闹。

听过无数次这样的语‘‘我还没走出上一段感情的阴影’’，‘‘我现在把重心都摆在事业上’’ 每当感情正要迈入下一个阶段时，最后总是以‘‘错的时间’’当作收场结语。然后，在一个月后却听到了他跟谁在一起的消息。也为此在夜里睡不着，怀疑是否是自己条件不够好，开始检讨自己，甚至报名了健身房。后来才明白，两个人在一起，最重要的并不是天时地利人和，而是意愿。要拒绝一个人可以有很多理由，但跟一个人在一起却只要一个理由就已经足够。那就是喜欢。对的人错的人，都是在另外一个时间你才发现。大部分时候我们都是为了不让自己太寂寞而委曲求全。因为除了时间的问题之外，另外一个就是你心境的问题。随着时间，年龄和成长，人是会逐渐改变的。以前认为是对的人，现在在某些程度来看就不是对的人，以前你觉得和他在一起很快乐他会傻呼呼地逗你开心，但过一阵子以后你会又觉得这个人好幼稚。因为你想法不同了，对原来很重视的特质已经不重视了，而这个时候你就会觉得这个不是对的人了。

beat the boredom

Do you feel like...you’re getting bored with your relationship?

You may be in love for months or years but what are the reasons behind why you got bored of your relationship? Nah! The reasons for your boredom could be one of these ↓ 

♒ Daily routine ♒

Your relationship routine is predictable and monotonous, you know what you’re going to do with each other every day. 

♒ Better choice ♒

You like your partner a lot, but somewhere deep inside, you feel like you deserve someone better.

♒ Communication ♒

You may get tired of trying to explain something to your partner because it takes too long to go into all the details and this is exactly how couples lose their communication in a relationship. 

Well, sometimes you may not feel so ''connected'' with each other and you might get discouraged. If you’re really bored with your relationship, you’re probably bored with your life. How can you make your life more exciting? That’s your job to figure it out. Do you envy your sister’s relationship because she’s never bored? Do you think your partner should try harder to make you happy? If your relationship boredom is caused by the ''unrealistic expectations'' then you need to change your thoughts. But if you still can't overcome it, it’s better to confront it now or both of you may end up hating each other. If you still wish to carry on the relationship, you need to change your attitude and the way of interacting. 

Happy Merry 6 Monthsary ♥

6 monthsary coming up tomorrow. Here is the card I made. Not the most classy or fabulous looking but it's handmade from the heart ♥

Material : colorful craft paper    Tools : scissor & glue

Here's how it looks like --- Foldable heart ♥ Personalize your own message and picture

Tadaaa~ ♥

Dior Homme Sport for him ♥ smells good but not overwhelming.

Happy Merry monthsary and wish us both a happy life and strong relationship together and more months and years to come with fulfillment and harmony together ♥♥♥

女同性恋

现时代的人会对 '' les '' 进行角色分类,如: butch, andro, femme。近年来多半的年轻人已将女同性恋作为 一种 '' trend ''，继而进行盲目崇拜，模仿并加以宣传。女同性恋顾名思义就是两个女人间的爱情。一个女人被同性身上的特征吸引，并随之发展成爱情。真正的女同性恋者并不会排斥自己的性别，她们认可并接受自己的性别， 然后清楚的意识到自己只能和异性做朋友，无法做情人。同时也意识到自己容易被优秀的同性所吸引。女同性恋和男人一样爱女人，当然不是每个女人都爱，就像男人不会对每一个女人产生好感。如果一个女人希望别的女人像男人一样来爱她，那说明这个女人需要的其实是男人而不是女人。所以，一个女生喜欢像男人一样的女人，那么这个女生潜意识里还是会喜欢男生的。其实女同性恋现象从古至今一直存在，经过漫长岁月的歧视、批判和争议，女同性恋这名词在当今的社会中已经从精神疾病的名单中被删除。女同性恋在最近这几年有上升的趋势,但由于一些人群将同性恋作为 '' trend '' 的文化进行宣传，再经过媒体影视等煽风点火的渲染，女同性恋原来的形象被严重扭曲，使大部分不了解同性恋的群众对同性恋产生强烈的反感。

Missing chapters ♥

It's been a long while since I last blogged. The last time I blogged was about one month ago. So this post shall all be about me updating about my life throughout these days. =D 02.02.2016 marks our 5 months together. There were some ups & downs throughout but I'm so glad we never gave up on each other and kept holding on till today. Thanks for everything you've done for me. I love you xoxo

年初一 ootd  ( outfit of the day ). Love this embroidered silk lilac cheongsam dress.

08.02.2016 marks the first day of Chinese New Year. Mom with me & boyfie went to cinema to watch from Vegas to Macau III ( 赌城风云3 ). A film by Wong Ching ( 王晶 ) starring Chow Yun Fatt ( 周润发 ), Andy Lau ( 刘德华 ), Jacky Cheung ( 张学友 ), Cheung Ka Fai ( 张家辉 ), Carina Lau ( 刘嘉玲 ), Psy, Li Yuchun ( 李宇春 ), Shawn Yue ( 余文乐 ), 童菲 ( Kimmy Tong ) etc. I’ve watched From Vegas to Macau series I & II and I’m catching the third one because this time Andy Lau has a bigger role in it!!! ( Andy Lau is my favorite actor ). The plot kinda lackluster but I love Andy Lau and Chow Yun Fat together =D

From Vegas to Macau III - The 3rd chapter in the from Vegas to Macau series reunited legendary Hong Kong actors.

On second day of Chinese Lunar year me and boyfie went to cinema again to watch The monkey king II ( 西游记之孙悟空三打白骨精 ) starring by Aaron Kwok ( 郭富城 ), Gong Li ( 巩俐 ), Law Chung Him ( 罗仲谦 ), Xiao Shen Yang ( 小沈阳 ), Feng Shao Feng ( 冯绍峰 ). It's a well known story with well known actors. Gong Li as the demon king White Bone Spirit was very dominating. Although the story line is a bit slow but there are many fun parts that make us laugh. Lots of 3D effect.

The monkey king 2 - A fantasy film based on the classic novel Journey to the West.

What we did on our last holiday( 年初四 ) ? Oh well.. as usual, went to cinema and watch movie! Stephen Chow's Mermaid is a must see comedy this Chinese New Year! The Mermaid ( 美人鱼 ) is a science fiction fantasy romantic comedy film directed by Stephen Chow. Stephen Chow is my idol ♥  I admire him because he's a talented actor, comedian, film director, script writer & producer. Mermaid is a solid dramedy with heart and a message. ( with real documentary footage of water pollution & dying sea life spliced into the film’s opening montage ). If you haven't watched this movie, I highly recommend it =D

Valentine's Day has already passed. It was on Sunday, a week ago. How did you guys spend your Valentine Day? I had the most enjoyable time with my boyfie. Thanks dear for making this Valentine's Day so wonderful :) I love the glitter roses and the pressie you bought for me.

Glitter purple roses ♥ so blessed to have such an amazing boyfie in my life ♥

Fine dinner at Ferdinand's @The Magellan Sutera Harbour

We had the 6 course meal at RM480 per couple.

( I did not managed to snap the of picture of necklace boyfie got for me ↑ so I randomly downloaded from website XD ) He got me a Swarovski necklace ↑ but I returned back to him and we went to the Swarovski shop on the next day and changed it to the smaller one. XD 

Overall, I had a wonderful time with boyfriend during this Chinese New Year. ♥ Good times = amazing memories.