Reflection Of Life

Wednesday, 5 August 2015

Social experiment : life without Facebook

I used to go on Facebook right when I woke up and check everything anyone has posted. Twenty mins later I would check again. Another twenty mins and I would check again. I would check more frequently when I posted something I tot was witty/funny at the time. Urghh I'm constantly checking my phone several times a day!!! And I feel like life is passing me by, I see everyone doing stuff & getting married & having kid and I'm here just doing nothing. *deep emo sigh*

Day 3 without Facebook is peaceful, at least I'm not bombarded with games request I don't want. I don't have to look at new bb pictures posted by a girl I haven't spoken to in 10 years or read hundred diff opinions on whether the dress is blue or white LOL.

* I'm not going to close my acc. I just gonna limit my access to one day a week =) *

任意门

那些很久没有写过的文字离我很远了。。。但也正是那些我曾经经历过，或者现在正在经历的才可以触动到我心底那个地方。如果给我一扇任意门，我想回到1999年初中的第一个学期，回到那无数兵荒马乱的复习日，那漫无目的的体育课，回去教学楼背后的那一个没人的地方。.直到今天，不知道那朴素的生活和遥远的梦想还在不在？然而我已经明白 ‘‘天寒地冻，路遥马亡’’ 。。。

可惜我们没有任意门，什么也回不去，什么也不一样了。。。时间是残酷的，它可以带走很多东西，比如我的‘‘城堡’’被我拆了‘‘城墙’’，比如我开始听英文歌，比如我爱上鹿晗，比如我不再那么讨厌菁诗。但总有一些东西是时间带不走的，比如现在的我仍然听着那首晴天，比如我爱的周杰伦永远不变，比如那些爱我的和我爱的朋友们一直在我身边。如果现在的你爱一个人爱到失去力气，爱到付出全部你拥有的，爱到关心对方的一字一句，爱到设立不存在的假想敌，爱到没有判断力，爱到没有理智没有自己，但对方不爱你，你很难过，但没关系，对方可以用任何方式伤害你，你想离开可是却做不到，但真的没关系，没准哪天你就不爱了，对方却爱上了你，总有一天你会被同样的方式伤害。爱与不爱只是伤来伤去的循环曲。

那些年，那些故事，那些爱，那些委屈，那些眼泪，都埋起来吧！我已经挥霍了我的幸福。如果真的有任意门，我想去到很久很久的以后看一看，只是纯粹地看一看留在我身旁的是不是。。。

Monday, 3 August 2015

Tonkey the teddy bear ❤

Tonkey Bear, a Shar-Pei dog with an adorable teddy bear face awww ❤

bearcoat_tonkey

Follow @bearcoat_tonkey for more adorable updates from the teddy bear dog.

( this pup looks adorable in every shot aww ❤ )

Why do I blog?

I blog because I want to capture the memories I go thru in my life. My blog is like a diary to me. I’m active on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Youtube, Weibo and even Dayre but none of these allows for me to state out my life & thoughts. Sometimes I do miss certain parts of my life because I can’t remember everything I go thru to remember to blog about it at the end of the day =( Last night I looked in my another blog archives 3-5 years back to these moments of my life…

letter ‘ S ’

do YOU really want to hurt me？

一字一句

12042013

那些年错过的大雨...

G.Y.M

诱惑

Reading those entries brought me on a walk down memory lane. It wasn’t just what happened or the pictures I took but it was the way I wrote it and how it really shed light on the way I felt and how I was as a person 3-5 years ago. =)

Just a thought...

Lately I’ve been strolling down memory lane & in one of my journeys back in time, I have recalled my Friendster acc. I could still remember the craze of the 1st social network that really hit the crowd except Purplelab lol. Here are the things I'm sure we all miss about the classic social media site --- FRIENDSTER!

Testimonials:
Oh those texts that our friends post in our walls to show how much thy value our friendship.
( the simple rule is when we are given a testimonial, we are also required to post one to our friend’s wall )

Glitter texts:
From posting just plain texts, we all discovered that putting testimonials in our friends' walls can be made more special by adorning them with colorful gifs/jpeg.

Customized background:
Social media wall had never been more personalized than during Friendster times.
( Although FB today has a way of customizing our page - timeline photos )

The sad part is when we ''migrated'' from Friendster to Facebook, we left some friends that were loyal to Friendster. Time had passed and we lost contact with them, and when the old social media site shut down its service on 2011, we don’t have any way to keep track of some of them. haixx...