It's all about timing

Every person will need to find four people in their lives :

The 1st person is you, the 2nd person is the one you love most, the 3rd person is the one who love you most and the 4th is the one you spend the rest of your life with. 

Firstly you will meet with the one you love the most and learn how love feels. Because you know how love feels, so you can find the person who loves you most. When you have experienced the feeling of loving others and being loved, you will know what is you need the most. Then you will find the person who is most suitable for you, to be able to spend the rest of your life with. But...in reality, these 3 people are usually not the same person...The one you love the most doesn't love you, the one who loves you the most is never the one you love the most. And the one you spend your life with is never the one you love the most or the one who loves you the most. He is just the person who happens to be at the right place at the right time. 

No person will purposely have a change of heart. At the point in time when he loves you, he really loves you. Same goes, when he doesn't love you, he really doesn't love you anymore. When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you. You must ask yourself if you still love him, if you also don't love him anymore, do not keep him just to save your pride. Love is not possessive, if you like the moon, you can't just take it down and put it in your basin.

In other words, when you love a person, you can use another method of possessing the person. Let him become a permanent memory in your life. If you really love a person, you must love him for what he is. Love him for his good points, and the bad. You can't wish for him to become like what you like him to be just because you love him. When you really love a person, you cannot find a reason why you love him, you only know that no matter when and where, good mood or bad mood, you will wish to have this person to be with you. 

Real love is when 2 people can go thru the toughest problems without asking for promises or listing criteria. You have to put in effort and give in at times, and not always be on the receiving end in a relationship. Being away from each other is a type of test. If the relationship isn't strong, then you can only admit defeat. Good luck readers =)