Expecting too much can lead to so much disappointment...For an example : When I start to expect something, I also start to count on it. Once I start counting on something to happen, I start to make plans. When someone who get involved in ''my plan'' being "too busy" for me. Instead of being understanding, I give this person the cold treatment. But somehow, deep down inside of me, I realized I was not really upset with this person. I was just upset since this person did not meet my expectations. How selfish could I be. I was really really really selfish. When expectations rule our lives, we set ourselves up for disappointment. Then guess what? We judge ourselves harshly for it. Expecting too much that is why I do not enjoy lil things dat I accomplish. I had a list of goals but when I finally did and realized I didn’t meet any of my goals, I got frustrated and started telling myself I was a failure ☹ Hence the following are the lesson I've learned while making the transition from expectation overload to the lightness of exploration.
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☛ Less Expectation, More Exploration & Trust ☚
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No Expectation, no Disappointment. I wasn’t complaining about anything, in fact, I learned to be thankful with what I have. ☺
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